Solving the problem on a legal and appropriate basis is essential if you want to reduce the impact on your children. Even if you are tempted, it is important not to subject your ex to your children or to show your rage towards your ex when your children are there. Instead, go through the justice system and interview your ex or others if your children can`t hear you. This can help you find a better solution without worrying about making things even harder for your children. The extent and nature of the breach of the injunction may also affect the continuation of the courts` actions. For example, the courts might be more lenient for someone who has arrived once or twice late for a child drop or pickup than someone who refuses to comply with the custody order. If your ex routinely violates the child care agreement, it may be advantageous to ask for a change in the child custody decision. If your ex z.B. is constantly late to pick up your children, you can request that the order be changed for another pickup time that works better with its schedule. Or, if they still speak negatively of you in your children, you can demand that the conditions be changed to allow only supervised visit. Exploits any indeterminacy in the child`s custody order to save more time with the child.
Depending on the situation, your ex can only receive a stern warning in court. The judge could explain the consequences of a violation of the order and encourage your ex to comply with the order that is in effect. If you are hoping for a solution, this could be the best and most effective way to get it. After being notified in court, your ex may become nervous and follow the custody order in the future. If the injury is relatively minor, but grows to a consistent problem, you may be able to correct it by letting one of our lawyers write a formal letter for you. This letter explicitly states how your ex violated the child custody agreement and informs them that you intend to take legal action if the situation is not corrected. Consider your ex`s “written warning” that they need to correct their behavior. This is often the first step for your ex to follow child care orders. Your lawyer may write a letter informing the other parent that they must comply with the court order or that they must be prepared to expect heavy sentences. Sometimes that`s all it takes to wake a parent up and get them to follow the child`s custody order.